Cleaning Woes

My house is an utter mess.

It seems no matter what I do, it stays a mess.

I get home from work around 5:30, so I have from then til 8:00 to cook, do baths & bedtime. I have virtually no time to clean. I get the kids to help me with what they can, but it's not enough. I can't get the Hubby to even pick up his socks, his boots, his shirt, etc. Wherever he happens to be when he takes something off, that's where it stays until I pick it up. It's nothing for several socks & work shirts to be in the living room floor. And it doesn't end with clothing. Plates, cups, wrappers, cans, mail, whatever.

I spend most of the weekend trying to catch up. But laundry alone is a 2 day job. And I would like to rest on my weekends too.

The Hubby mentioned on Sunday that I really need to get "organized". HA! I'd like to see him try to do what I do.

I don't have time to do the FlyLady program, or any other program really. I don't like the idea of doing little things a day like reorganizing my pantry, or cleaning out a drawer. I need massive action in a minimal time kind of help.

I'm at my wits end and have no idea what to do.

Does everyone else know some secret I don't know about? It really seems that way....